okay so long story…
Im 17 and i know its kinda stupid to ask advice because i should be able to figure stuff out, but this im lost…
so theres this guy and in the last year we’ve got to know each other… and we are.. id say we are good friends. he’s a grade younger than me.So pretty much he runs with one of the most popular crowds at school, his crew happens to be a bunch of really good looking egotistical soccer players who judge everyone and anyone… He pretty much loves them they’ve all been friends since elementary school but at the same time he hates them. He hates how they think that they own the world and how they treat people and he often vents to me about how upset he is about him being torn into two people, we talk alot and have some sought of connection. He doesnt want to be a douche like the rest of his crew and he’s pretty much deeper than that but he doesnt want to loose his friends and his status i guess.
so where am in this whole thing? well we are friends but we fight like none other. He dated my friend and it just caused problems… we’d fight about the stupidest stuff but always make up.. We would fight untill we’d either stop talking or we’d want to kill each other.. so uhm one fight got so bad he was like I cant handle you anymore. and I Straight up said to him told him to give up and leave.. and he said to me bluntly that if he could get up and leave and forget about me he would but theres something about me he cant let go of and probley wont ever be able to… WTF? i didnt know if i should be offended or flattered… idk if i am just a friend or what… i kinda like him but im not his type and i like having him as a friend… but we have a lot of weird tension and i dont whats going on… we have a lot of situation similar to these… help? 
no haters please
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