[ Singles & Dating ] Open Question : I really like someone, I’m not sure if she thinks the same way and I don’t want to ruin our great friendship..?

We went to high school together, I met her early this year. We became good friends, but we never did anything together outside of school. This summer i was of town for a while and she began saying that she missed me (on facebook), so I started thinking differently about her. After she left for college, we began (and still do) chat and text each other a lot. I’m the only guy she really interacts with on facebook (based on comments, posts) and likewise with me (she always comments on my posts, and I do the same) We both do a bit of flirting. I took her out to a band concert (we both like band) a few days ago and to dinner/movie the next day as she had come home for break. She was really excited to see me, and it looks she enjoyed her time both days. We talked a lot, but nothing else.nnI really want her to be more than a friend, but I don’t want to risk asking her; If she doesn’t think of me the same way, then I fear that asking her might hurt our close friendship. We both have never been in a relationship in the past. I don’t know what to do. We ended in a tight hug and goodbye before she left to college She’s coming back in 3 weeks. Any advice? Should I give her more time? Or should I just talk to her about my feelings? Thanks!

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