Hey , can you guys give me some advice regarding this situation? I have known this girl since childhood. We stopped talking after we graduated general school and after two or three years we started to chat on msn . I finally got to meet her 1 year ago but we saw each other like 2-3 hours per month and she was with her friends. I don’t know what is wrong with me , I had three girlfriends this year and I didn’t feel a thing and with this one.. I can’t take my mind off of her . Now then , one month ago I invited her at a party and since then , she started to hang out with me and my friends . I can’t seem to be able to hit on her , If I meet a new girl and someone tells me to hit on her right away I don’t have any problems . Two years ago I liked a girl , not as much as this one and I wanted to have a real relationship and told her , but she gave me the ” I think of you as a friend” and I think I am damaged since that. We get along very well , we don’t have silence moments and so on but I didn’t think it was the right moment to make the move ( from what I know she never had a boyfriend) but she isn’t shy at all around other guys , her friends are like 10 years older than us … and yes , I’m sure she is not a lesbian . Now I think I have stalled way too much and decided to stay back for a week or so , no messages , no nothing . What do you guys think I should do? It’s killing me to be just her friend , and at the same time when I think that if I drop the bomb she will get shocked and say no , it will also kill me. Do you have some tips on how to do this without ‘the speech’? I imagine that if I take her hand or something like that sudden it will be the same thing as the ’speech’ so , can you give me some tips please? I am desperate…..I know
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