Yes, I am lonely person. I feel loneliness. What I don’t get is why do I feel this way? I shouldn’t have to suffer this, and what I don’t get is what is the best way to cure it? Go out and get a girlfriend? I don’t think I’m a very good looking person, and on top of that, when I really think about it, I’m feeling this lonely, if I really did met someone, I would place a lot of burden on her with my feelings and emotion. I want to go in a relationship where I can be an equal, not someone who has to be carried through.nnAll I know is that each day my fear is getting worst. I fear that I’m getting too old for relationships, I fear that I’m getting uglier by the day and my chances are going downhill, I fear that I’ll be too selfish, greedy and uncaring in a relationship. I fear a lot of things, but worst of all I fear that being 25 (almost 26 in a few months) that I’m starting to get too old to not have had a girlfriend or a serious relationship. nnYes I know I have good health, and that can go. Yes I know about appreciation. Yes I know about a lot of things you’re going to tell me. What I don’t get is that applying it is harder than anything in this world.nnDoes every person get one shot at love in life? Or is that a bunch of baloney and you just have to continuously search for it? Or you’re forever doomed to yearn for true love? nnI can honestly tell you that I do not know the first thing in building a relationship. The obvious one is to go up to a girl and say hello, but timeless times that has failed. If I knew how to get a girlfriend or get a relationship, I would be here asking a different type of question instead of the one I’m asking now.nnSorry for long post. But can anyone give me a straight answer!?!?!?! It’s driving me crazy and I just want to scream and yell and run down the streets kicking and screaming like a little kid. Yes, it’s getting to that point, seriously. I just feel so dumb and idiotic for this and it’s driving me insane.
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